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I can't see your love, I just see the chain and your hidden intention to hurt me. Being hated is way more comfortable than being loved. ps: unexpectedly, with my current boyfriend it didn't happen. He fell in love with me long before I returned his feelings, yet when he expressed love to me I didn't feel the urge to run away (unfortunately I can't really feel the love towards me anyway). #childhoodtrauma #avoidant #npd #avoidantattachmentstyle #npdawareness

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Risposta a @carromaggiore : ho mentito, non è tutto quello che avevo da dire ma non avevo più tempo in questo video😅 Qui ho parlato del come non si sviluppa questo disturbo nonostante un pattern genitoriale che possiamo definire come un marcatore per il disturbo narcisistico di personalità, ma c'è ancora da parlare di come altri fattori di rischio, interagendo coi tuoi geni, possono portarti ad un altro disturbo. Farò un secondo video /: I lied, that’s not everything I had to say, but I ran out of time in this video 😅. Here I talked about how this disorder does not develop even given a parenting pattern that could be defined as a marker for NPD, but there is still more to discuss regarding how certain risk factors, interacting with your genes, can lead to a different disorder. I'll make a second video #npd #npdawareness #narcisista #psychology #empathy

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✴️ Those who stigmatize lack of empathy the most are always those who know less about what actually is empathy. 🔸Have the decency to inform yourself before you hate. ⚠️ No, lacking emotional empathy doesn't make you an @bus3r, so don't bring up that bs "I can't have empathy for people who hurt others!!" or you'll show an empathetic ability more reduced than mine. #empathy #emotionalempathy #psychology #npd #aspd [I only tag these two disorders because they are the ones most associated with a lack of empathy, but ALL personality disorders have an impairment of the ability of empathy, yeah, absolutely also BPD and it's not just about splitting]