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As a lovergirl, do you have to trade intensity for intention? Formerly a serial U-Hauler, I knew I had to learn to love differently. To co-create love, not be consumed by it. A year on, I've seen how slowness is the key to not losing yourself in love, and the new @hinge LGBTQIA+ D.A.T.E Report agrees ❤️‍🔥 By moving at the speed of trust, you can truly see if someone's WORDS + ACTIONS ++ VALUES +++ ~actually~ align and are consistent over time !!! In the past I'd love without boundaries, making light of being co-deppy (codependent) 💀 before eventually realising I couldn't tell where I ended and they began... The ultimate recipe for self-betrayal. The D.A.T.E report dives into this concept of “Show Don’t Tell” and other delicious insights on queer dating — peep my story or link in bio to read it, featuring yours truly! 💘 #Ad #HingePartner #LGBTQIA #QueerDating #PrideMonth

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behold the limewire cd burner <> music festival forum regular <> lovergirl playlist curator <> lesbian dj pipeline 💿 2026 is my year of vulnerability and whimsy, so finally learning to DJ makes senseeee. s/o to @thequivr for gifting me a spot in their course in March that kick started everything! #femme #dj #lesbian #ghettotech

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new seriessss: PAFF puts you on! a container to share things I’ve recently discovered OR have crafted a method / POV / thesis about over time🌟🧷 knowledge sharing innit! #dj #soundcloud #musicdiscovery #bass #lgbtq