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THE BOAT STOPS Where it stops is on you. Your boat started somewhere you didn't choose. A father who wasn't there, or was there and shouldn't have been. A marriage you picked out of your wounds. A system that took your kids and called it fair. None of that decides where you land. Here's what does: 1. Who's steering. If your anger, your ex, or your past is at the wheel, you're drifting. Take it back. 2. What you're carrying. Resentment, bitterness, the story you tell every night. That's dead weight. Dump it or sink with it. 3. Where you're pointed. Most men can tell you everything that went wrong. Ask them where they're headed and they go quiet. Pick a direction. Health, faith, purpose, being the dad your kids come home to. The starting point is history. The destination is a decision. So be honest. What's still steering your boat right now? Name it below. I'm Cameron, a faith-driven men's mindset and parent alienation coach. I work one on one with dads who are done drifting and ready to take the wheel back. Book a free 20 minute call here: https://calendly.com/theawareman/20-minutes-1-1-session Faith. Fire. Freedom.�Cameron | @TheAwareMan #UnbrokenDads #SingleDads #ParentalAlienation #MensMindset #FaithOverFea my

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Things you buy without a Latina in your life 😂 Dutch oven. Beef bouillon. A chuck roast and a prayer 🙏🏻 Laugh all you want, but here's the truth. Most men lose a woman and wait around for the next one to save them. Eating junk. House a mess. Life on pause. That's backwards. Build the man first. Then build the life. Then she comes, or God sends her. You don't build yourself to win a woman. You build yourself so you never need one to rescue you. When you're whole, you're choosing from strength, not hunger. If you're starting over after a divorce or a breakup and you're ready to build yourself back the right way, book a free 20-minute call with me:
https://calendly.com/theawareman/20-minutes-1-1-session Faith. Fire. Freedom. 🔥
 Cameron Kellogg @TheAwareMan #UNBROKEN #TheAwareMan #MensCoaching #RebuildYourLife #DivorcedMen

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Stop waiting. That's the biggest shift for an alienated parent. Waiting for the phone to ring. Waiting for the judge to see it. Waiting for your kid to wake up. Waiting feels like loyalty. It's actually a slow bleed. Here's the direction I give every parent I work with, moms and dads: 1. Separate the love from the outcome. You can love your child fully and still not control when they come back. Holding both is where peace starts. 2. Keep the door open, not the wound. Send the birthday text. Keep it short, warm, no guilt, no questions they have to answer. Then put the phone down and go live your day. 3. Build the parent they come home to. If your kid walked in tomorrow, who would they find? Someone stuck replaying the past, or someone steady, healthy, and whole? Work on that person every single day. 4. Stop arguing your case in your head. The system got it wrong. You don't have to relitigate it every night to prove you're a good parent. You already know who you are. 5. Put the pain somewhere productive. Gym, journal, prayer, a coach, a group like this one. Not your kids, not your ex, not a social media rant. I've walked this road with my own sons. It hurts. Some days it still aches. But you do not have to live there every day. Drop a comment: which one of these are you working on this week? I'm a parent alienation and mindset coach. I work one on one with alienated parents to get them out of survival mode and back into their life, so they're ready when their kids come home. Book a 20 minute discovery call here: https://calendly.com/theawareman/20-minutes-1-1-session Faith.Fire.Freedom. Cameron@ TheAwareMan