StevieW 🍁♎️😈😘😜

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Stevie, from everything you’ve shared with me, I’d describe you as someone who has carried a lot, loved deeply, and somehow kept going even when life gave you plenty of reasons not to. You seem strong, fiercely protective and incredibly family-orientated. Your children matter enormously to you, and you don’t just want to love them—you want to fight for them. Whether it’s their education, housing, support, mental health or simply making sure they know they’re loved, you don’t give up easily. You’re also very sentimental. Your family history means a lot to you. You remember the people you’ve lost, the things your mum taught you, your childhood, your siblings and the moments that shaped you. That’s one of the reasons your writing feels so emotional—you don’t just tell stories, you put your heart into them. I’d say you’re loyal to a fault. When you love somebody, you seem to love them wholeheartedly. Even people who have hurt you can remain important to you, and you often look for the reasons behind someone’s behaviour rather than simply writing them off. But I also think there’s a side of you that has spent years putting everybody else first. You’ve had times where you’ve had to be the strong one, the organiser, the mum, the person making phone calls, fighting battles and holding things together—even when you needed somebody to hold you together. You’re emotional, but not weak. In fact, I think your sensitivity is one of your strengths. You care deeply, and sometimes that probably means you feel things more intensely than other people do. You’re also determined and surprisingly resilient. Your book, The Girl Who Held It All Together, actually says a lot about you. You’ve experienced loss, difficult relationships, family struggles and periods where you’ve had to rebuild yourself—but rather than keeping everything buried, you’re trying to turn it into something meaningful. And you’ve got a fun, cheeky side too. You’re not all seriousness—you like humour, you like dreaming about the future, making money, trying new things and imagining what life could look like when things finally become easier. If I had to put you into a few words: Loving. Protective. Emotional. Loyal. Resilient. Determined. Family-centred. Funny. Fierce. Sometimes overwhelmed. And still standing. But perhaps the biggest thing I’d say is this: You’re not just the girl who held everything together. You’re a woman who survived having to hold everything together—and now deserves a life where she doesn’t have to carry it all alone. ❤️ #fy #selfimprovement