shoki732

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Life has its ups and downs, highs and lows!! You aren't going to be everybody's cup of tea ☕️ and that's ok!! However remember part of self care and self love is recognising when you're trying to help someone and they just don't want to be helped. It can make friendships hard but if a " friend or friends" are picking you up when it suits them and them dropping you when its convenient its not an equal relationship, you deserve better!! If no one ever remembers to ask how are you? Or ask about your life then its because they just don't care, you are providing something for them.. ask what are you getting in return? If the answer isn't positive then maybe its time to put yourself first. #noteveryonescupoftea #canthelpthosewhodontwantit #unequal #tiresome #selfcare

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Having healthy boundaries is a way of protecting yourself, they reveal who doesn't respect you. People who genuinely care about you will respect your boundaries, you don't need to explain boundaries to people who keep crossing them. You must prioritise your peace over pleasing other people. We all have hard times or difficulties thats just life!! But when someone else's problems take over your life and there's no room or respect given for example when someone isnt even bothering to ask basic questions like how are you? What have you been up too? Etc , it shows they don't care, they aren't interested in you! Because the only thing that matters to them is theirselves, their issues, their bad days. There isn't any room for you. You have to learn to recognise when every boundary you have is continually broken . Its not because they forgot..its because they don't care. Put yourself first, you cannot remain fully healthy body, mind and soul if you spend all your time being consumed by other people's lack of boundaries and lack of respect 🫡 Learn from the past, if you don't then you will repeat these mistakes after all we are only human. 🩷#boundariesarehealthy #lackofrespect #healthyrelationships #putyourselffirst #fyp

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Im not going to post the awful photos that exist, I don't owe proof to anyone. People only message asking how you are when they want something from you. Often people don't see what is right in front of them, they don't read between the lines because they either miss it or don't care. #crashcall #exhusting #peopledontunderstand #fyp