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Since when did supporting your husband become a sign of weakness? THATS WEIRD, FAM! You’re his ezer, Girly. God put some things in you to help your household be up financially. Stop playing small, and don’t wait for him to have every skill. Want help turning your spousal strengths into a plan? Join my live workshops on MONDAYs at 6 PM ET on YT & IG. #HelpHimSeeIt #WifeReset #Ezer #ChristianMarriage #BlackWomenInMarriage

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Baby Gurl, if you’re hinting, keeping score + doing it yourself, you’ve slid into worldly wife mode. Here’s the mirror: 1. Ezer asks. Worldly wife hints 2. Ezer rests when he leads. Worldly wife fixes it behind his back 3. Ezer trusts. Worldly wife goes full on DIY🙃 This isn’t a verdict, Girly. Even the good ones slide, and tired wives slide fastest. Name it, then step back. An ezer is a strong helper who strengthens his leadership without becoming a man. Follow for more. #WifeReset #Ezer #OverFunctioning #ChristianMarriage #BlackWomenInMarriage

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He’s not a bad leader. You just never learned his language,sis. 🥲 For years I thought my husband was passive, uninterested or checked out. Turns out I was misreading his style, and overfunctioning to make up for gaps that were never gaps. No wonder I was exhausted baby! Swipe through to meet the 5 leadership styles… When you understand how he leads, you stop fighting him and start partnering with him.✨ So, which one did you marry? 👀 Comment or DM QUIZ and I’ll send you the quiz to find out. Save this for the next time you feel frustrated, and send it to a friend who needs it. 💛 #marriagecoaching #christianmarriage #marriagetips #leadershipinmarriage #wivesoftiktok