LovingWithoutBoundaries

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Growth Gap Jealousy in ENM (ethical non-monogamy) and polyamory is the one nobody warns you about. It's not about their other partners. It's about watching them thrive — and feeling like you're the one falling behind. That is not a sign you're not cut out for this. That's a message. About your relationship with yourself. Free masterclass — link in bio 💜 What's the jealousy type that hits you the hardest — the kind nobody around you talks about? #ENM #ethicalnonmonogamy #polyamory #jealousy #polyamorous

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Nobody needs to spend the first three sessions explaining their relationship to their therapist. 💜 A study of 249 people in consensually non-monogamous relationships found that roughly one in five said their therapist lacked the basic knowledge to help them. Nearly half screened their therapist first, and those clients rated their therapist as more helpful. So I wrote down four questions you can ask in the first fifteen minutes. They’re in my first press release. I’m a coach, not a therapist. Coaching works on skills going forward. Therapy can work clinically with trauma and the past. Some people need both. What question would you add? Tell me below. 👇 The four questions and the press release are on my blog. Link in bio 💜 #ENM #ethicalnonmonogamy #polyamory #polyamorous #lovingwithoutboundaries

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If you've ever felt alone in your open relationship or polyamory journey — not alone in the relationship, but alone in the WORLD — This one is for you. Your friends don't get it. Your family thinks it's cheating. Your therapist gives you that look. You are not broken. You are in the wrong room. Come find your people. Find your people — link in bio 💜 See you on the inside! #ENM #ethicalnonmonogamy #polyamory #polyamorous