Kathy Peters

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Rate my acting on a scare from 0 to 10 #actress

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Do you know someone like that? #toxic #gf

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Sometimes a breakup is an act of love, especially when staying keeps hurting both of you and leaving becomes the only way to end an unhealthy dynamic. When you are the anxiously attached person and you stop chasing, stop fixing and stop self abandoning yourself, when you start setting boundaries, stop apologizing for your needs and your emotions and stop bending over backwards to maintain a one sided relationship, that is when it shows what the relationship is really built on. That is when it either makes or breaks the relationship. The fear of abandonment keeps so many anxiously attached people from risking losing someone they want so badly to heal the anxious avoidant dynamic with. But only by risking to truly show up for yourself can you see who is willing to show up for you too and who is not. And honestly, let people walk away who do not want to stay in your life. Let them walk away, because they make room for the people who actually want to be with you, who do not feel smothered by your love, who appreciate it and who value you for who you are. Maybe that is what real healing looks like, letting go of the people who never intended to stay. #attachmenthealing #anxiousattachment #anxiousavoidant #anxiousavoidanttrap #anxiouslyattached @Kreaty 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️