CoParent Peace

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Just a simple question: “What time are you picking the kids up?” But instead of a clear answer… You get avoidance. Deflection. And somehow… blame. This is what a lot of people don’t see about co-parenting. It’s not always shouting or obvious arguments. Sometimes it’s subtle. It looks like: “I don’t know yet” “Why do you need to know?” “I’ll let you know when I’m free” Sounds harmless on the surface, right? But here’s the reality… You’re left unable to plan your day. You’re walking on eggshells just trying to organise basic things. And when you try to get clarity… it gets flipped back onto you. Suddenly: You’re “controlling” You “worry too much” “It’s always about you” That’s the part that messes with your head. Because you start questioning yourself: “Am I asking too much?” “Am I being difficult?” You’re not. You’re trying to co-parent like an adult. You’re trying to create stability for your kids. You’re trying to plan your life around shared responsibility. And instead… you get unpredictability and emotional pushback. This kind of behaviour isn’t about logistics. It’s about control. Keeping things vague = keeping you off balance. And when everything is unclear, they stay in control of the situation. That’s why tools, boundaries, and documented communication matter. Not to “win” Not to argue But to create clarity, consistency, and accountability Because kids don’t thrive in chaos. They thrive in structure. And one parent trying to create that shouldn’t be made to feel like the problem. If this feels familiar… you’re not alone. #coparenting #coparentingstruggles #toxiccoparenting #narcissisticabuse #gaslighting

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🙄 When your co-parent thinks homework isn’t their problem… Ever deal with a co-parent who suddenly “can’t” help with the basics when the kids are with them? You ask politely. You keep it calm. You focus on what’s best for the kids… and somehow it still turns into excuses, deflection, or making it your responsibility. This is what passive-aggressive co-parenting looks like in real life. Not shouting. Not obvious conflict. Just subtle avoidance, shifting responsibility, and acting like being a parent is optional depending on the day. Consistency matters. Kids don’t live two separate lives. They need structure, support, and effort from both parents, not just one carrying the load. If you’re dealing with this, you’re not alone. Keep showing up for your kids, even when the other side makes it harder than it should be. #coparenting #toxiccoparenting #singleparentlife #parentingstruggles #narcissisticbehavior

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Literally what my ex did when he found out I'd been recording all messages and his controlling behaviours 😂 #FamilyCourt #coparenting