Frankie Brown

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Misogyny disguised as curiosity. ##WhatDoYouBringToTheTable##ModernMisogyny##DatingTruths##ToxicDatingCulture##CallItWhatItIs##FeministTok##ForYouPage##FYP

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Let’s talk about how misogyny hides behind fake curiosity. Because this question? It isn’t deep. It isn’t clever. It’s commodification. You’re not seeking a relationship. You’re conducting a value assessment. You’re not looking for connection—you’re looking for an upgrade. A product. A bang-for-your-buck package deal. And women? We’re not applying for jobs. We’re not submitting resumes to be tolerated, approved, or “chosen.” Especially not by men who think offering bare minimum respect is enough to qualify them as the prize. This post is the perfect example of how entitlement gets dressed up as “standards.” It’s never about mutual compatibility. It’s about control. What do you bring to the table? Insecurity. Bitterness. The trauma from “one chick” who rejected you that you’ve now projected onto all women and molded into a whole-ass personality. You’re not asking what women bring to the table. You’re asking what you can extract. What benefit you can gain. It’s not about love. It’s about leverage. You think you’re owed something—access, affection, performance—just for showing up. And then you want to stack a checklist of extras on top of that. As if a woman’s value is a sum of deliverables and you’re the one doing the hiring. Spoiler: You’re not the prize. You’re not the employer. You’re not the king. You’re the cautionary tale. Reducing people’s worth to how well they serve you isn’t “just preferences.” It’s dehumanization. You’re not looking for a partner—you’re looking for compliance. And the second a woman has standards of her own, you call it misandry. You say you’re tired of being “used” by women, but what you really mean is you’re mad that women have autonomy now. You say, “Some people aren’t a good package.” But you’re not talking about people. You’re talking about how well someone meets your demands. That’s not dating. That’s shopping. And if you want to shop, go buy a doll. Also? When you derail a conversation about systemic misogyny by crying “but men too!” you sound like a man walking into a burn unit and complaining about sunscreen fairness. It’s not just tone-deaf. It’s irrelevant. If this post bothers you, ask yourself why. Because nothing here is hate. What is here is accountability. What’s here is women reclaiming their value outside of patriarchal economics. And if that threatens you? That says a lot more about you than it does about me. You don’t want a woman. You want a woman who needs you. And the moment she doesn’t—you fall apart. So here’s a thought: Maybe stop asking what women bring to the table, and start asking if you’ve earned a seat at it. #tea #messy #facebook #feministtiktok #misogyny #feminism #patriarchy #spicytakes #genderroles #healing #toxicmasculinity #relationshipadvice #standards #misogynisticmen #calloutculture #boldtruth #womensempowerment #knowyourworth #datingadvice #femalepower #ranttok #carouselpost #burnttoastlogic #frankietalksback

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Octopus cup finished!!! #ceramics #pottery #workinprogress #octopus