In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake

In life we meet a lot of people. Some stay strangers, others acquaintances and some we befriend. Regardless of the relationship you have with someone if you hit a point where you’re just feeling burnt out or uncomfortable or maybe even disrespected or unappreciated you are totally within your rights to step away from that relationship, temporarily or permanently. At the end of the day, we as people should protect our own peace and happiness and ensure our own boundaries are adhered to. Of course there are situations that call for compromise, often with family (though these still have limits) - but we don’t have to put our already limited time into things that don’t move our life in a positive direction. Just my two cents on this matter, ya’ll - food for thought as you consider your own life experience - use your own judgement! Let me know how ya’ll deal with these types of situations day to day? Would love to learn more! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #protectyourpeace

Self awareness and self reflection are two incredibly powerful qualities that I feel are unfortunately in short supply these days. In my opinion a lot of people seem to be focused on the wrong things and miss opportunities to not only develop themselves but others as well. If we only ever define our way of being once and never change or learn new things or open ourselves up to different ways of thinking, are we really doing right by ourselves? If we only ever concern ourselves with our own actions and successes and ignore the accomplishments of others, are we really putting out the right energy? We may be the main character in our own story, but everyone else is the main character in theirs. It isn’t an impossible effort to step back, understand what it is you’re happy with and unhappy with yourself and ask yourself how can you get to where you not only need to be but want to be - and, how can you help others on their journey to get there as well. It costs nothing to be kind and little to achieve that “1% better” each day. Just my take yall! How do yall feel about today’s culture of self reflection and progression? Drop a comment below! #vrchat #vrchatcommunity #hottake #mentalhealthawareness #selfreflection

I think the whole debate on optimism, pessimism and realism is a complicated one and differs person to person. To be clear I’m not advocating that everyone should or should not be one or the other (though I’m not sure pessimism is very constructive) but I do think each has its own perks and suitability for different types of people. For me I like the facts - tell me how it is and why and I’ll try to deduce what the outcome may be. I’m not a big fan of the disappointment that often comes from being too hopeful, nor the drag of always expecting the worst to happen too. It was definitely a battle to transition from pessimism to realism but I’ve found far more peace in this way of thinking and it was worth the effort. How do yall approach challenges and ways of thinking? Do you lean more into one of these than the others? Do you wish you thought differently? I’m always looking to learn more about how different people think! Let me know in the comments and maybe I’ll make some follow up videos to your thoughts! #selfreflection #overcomingchallenges #realist #optimism #hottake